in the last 6 months my husband has started complaining about me to a couple of his friends, I only know because I snooped on his messages and saw it. He's also started talking about other women and things he used to do before we met - we've been together for 14yrs and I'm just getting the feeling he's over it, I have asked him more than once if he's happy and he says yes BUT from the things he says I don't think he is! I've tried catching him out with things that he's said in messages to his friend but I always get the lies, even for stuff that doesn't involve me. He lies about everything and has done so from the beginning but I guess now I'm starting to wonder why, on the odd occasion I've caught him lying he says he lied because he knew I'd get shitty, well and truly over that excuse! he's changed passwords so I can't access things anymore too
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Well its him being shitty.
You know how to exactly quit that attitude and value u again.
By you doing almost the same thing, its only how He ll understand, coz talking and working on the relationship works when both agree to actually improve things, and he seems very confident in whatever he thinks and won't listen much.
Even you remember who you were, be that person again, Don't care much.
Ignore him, Guys will know when ignored and take it as rejection and work his way to win u again.
Move out with ur friends , just make ur personal life look very charming and complete without him.
he ll realise that its not u but him who is at lose and remember that having you was the best thing in his life. Its childish of him at this age and deal with it that way only.0