I have seen certain replies such as ''every girl should be like that'' or ''you're a real gem''.
I'm a virgin but have no interest in waiting till marriage (if it helps, I don't think I even care about marriage). I'm ok with a relationship. I don't see how does not having sex till marriage make you more important and valuable overall than others that don't do that. I don't think anyone is more or less valuable but rather just another person that needs to find someone that wants that lifestyle too.
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Probably because some people have this idea that being a virgin makes someone more valuable and "worthy" as a human being. I have said this numerous times on here and I'll say it again, I am not a walking vagina. My sexual experience or lack thereof does not make me any more or less "worthy" or "respectable" than anyone else.
Personally, I don't care if someone wants to wait until marriage or not, that's their personal decision. But like @CHARismatic110 said, the problem I have is with people who try to push their views onto others or who make underhanded jabs at those who chose a different lifestyle. For instance I can't stand when some virgins use the excuse "I have self-control, self-worth, patience, blah blah blah just because I'm waiting until marriage." In my honest opinion, that's just a bunch of bullshit that they spout off to make themselves feel superior.
Just because someone is waiting for marriage doesn't mean they automatically possess those qualities and just because someone chose to have sex before marriage doesn't mean they don't have those qualities. Personally speaking, I'm just sick of the holier than thou people (especially on here). I think everyone should just mind their own business and stop shaming those who made a different choice (to wait or not to wait).6