I love my bf so much and want to marry him. my parents are started talking about my marriage now a days. So thinking to ask him to come my place To ask my parents. But he belongs to very traditional kind family. where they follow all cultures n all. and I know that he's parents will never allow for love marriage. And he's also like he can't leave his parents. he have to take care of them. I want to convince him that we are made for each other and he should do something for our marriage. But how to?
How to make a guy think that he should marry you, when you're knowing that his parents are against love marriage?
What Guys Said 4
He should have thought about these things (being orthodox, can't leave his parents) before getting into a relationship with you. Another mistake which people usually do - hiding their relationship from their parents. Especially in your case, I'm surprised that you hid it for four long years. No parent will like this kind of behavior from their son or daughter.
Contact his parents, talk to them about your relationship. That should clear things out. You may hesitate a lot. But, this is your life. You got to do it if you want to save this relationship.1
Indian spotted :D. Anyway my advise would be to leave the guy. This situation can turn out to be difficult for you in future where even if his parents will accept you they still won't like you. Why waste time, when you can find another who will truly love you for who you are and will not be swayed by what society dictates for him to do.0
Against love marriage? WTF? Why ELSE would you get married?0
If he does not wanna marry you
I'd suggest you better move on0
What Girls Said 1
Get pregnant!! :P
No if the guy isn't sure if he wants to marry you... there you have it. If you're gonna get married you both need to be a 100% sure you want it.0
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