I connect and vibe so well with someone that has been married for 7 years. No, we are not in a relationship, we are not having an affair. We are just friends, nothing sexual or romantic has ever happened between us.
The other day when we were together, he wanted to kiss me but I just turned away.
I am not acting on my feelings about it, yet am sometimes wishing that he was single. I feel like maybe I should have been the one he was supposed to be with. I don't know. I am not terribly in love with the man, but I do often wonder what it would be like to have a relationship with him. Again, I'm not acting on my feelings.
What do you think? Have you ever felt this way?
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No. I don't believe in soulmates. And why would you even want to be with a guy like that? He's obviously a cheater, and nothing would prevent him from cheating on you too. You're glorifying him in your head, when in reality he's a scumbag who's willing to cheat on the person he's supposed to commit to his entire life. That says a lot about his shitty character.
Has it been a long time since you last were interested in someone? Does it happen to you rarely? Do you know any other men you could be interested in you? If the answers are yes, yes and no, then it's obvious that you're just feeling lonely.1