I recently had a young 21 year old, engaged, girl flirt with me. If you want examples of what she did to flirt, I can tell you. I know it was flirting, and one of her friends even told her in front of me to "Stop flirting". Anyway, I confronted her about her flirting and asked her what it all meant. She told me,"That's just the way I am". Did it answer my question? No! I guess what I was looking for was an apology for leading me on. Up until this weekend, she still flirts with me. Why can't girls be straight up with guys?
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Well, your topic should say "Why can't certain girls be straight up with guys". Mainly because EVERY girl isn't the same way as the girl you described. Some girls flirt mainly for attention. Others flirt to make the person feel good about themselves. Some people just don't care and to me, that's the girl your talking about.
Sounds like she just wanted to have a little fun.There's nothing wrong with that. UNTIL someone gets hurt. Which almost always happens! You should tell her to be straight up with you because you don't like when girls lead you on or being lied to. For one, if she's engaged she shouldn't be flirting with anyone anyway. Tell her that!0