Here is the situation I have beeen in love with this girl ever since I was 19 she is my soul mate.
I`m a virgin and waiting to lose it to her.
Problem is she is religious and so is her family background, and in order to express my love intimately I need to be married to her.
Getting married and support her and a family is not viable for me, I hold a respectable white collar job.
I already support my parents and pay the mortgage which is expensive and bills for them since they are poor.
I`m having a dillema and don`t know what to do.
What are your options for me?
Most Helpful Girl
You should not marry someone just to have sex with them. Marry someone because they are your friend and you don't want to spend a day without them. Trust me, I have been married for 5 years now. The sex will get less exciting and when that happens you need something to talk about.
Also a wife is not a burden. She can help you by getting a job or taking care of the house or your parents. (I hold a full time job and am a caregiver to my husbands mother who is recovering from stage 3 breast cancer. I happily do this because we are a team.)
A marriage should be a partnership not a trade or a burden.0