Personally, I am against them. The girl I like wants an arranged marriage, she says her mom has better taste in guys and she doesn't want to have to go through the "struggles of dating." What do you think? Are you for or against arranged marriages?
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I belong to a country where 90% of the marriages are arranged.
●Less risk of incompatibility.
Individuals are perfectly matched on the factors such as religion, culture, social status, financial strength, background, language and similar lifestyle, so the risk of incompatibility is mostly eliminated.
Parents and in-laws will provide physical, emotional and financial support. And would help in nourishing the child
●Low chance of divorce and prevention from dating game.
Numbers and facts are there.
They don't know each other at all. They are solely depend upon the decision of their family. And the most important thing "love" will be non-existent. It'll (probably) come after the marriage while it should be before the marriage.
●Interference of family
The family would interfere in the matters of couple and in-laws are the most serious problem an individual will face
●Bound in relationship forever
Even if an individual (or both) are seeking for divorce, they'd rather do compromise than living a happy life for the sake of their family and moral values.
So, it has its own pluses and minuses.
My parents allow me love marriage but if I failed to find an appropriate partner then they will find it instead.2