He is really disappointed and miserable because you didn't show that much excitement and you didn't show that you were happy. You were very excited. But you didn't show it. Now he feels horrible and so miserable and has cried so much and really wants a chance at a better proposal. Would you let him propose again in the future?
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Just having someone propose to me would make me happy, because I'm not so convince at this point in my life that it will ever happen. However, I'm not the perky bubbly cheerleader type who's so perky it's makes you think they've had one too many cups of coffee. So, I'd probably show joy but not in an over the top way because that's not my personality.
I will say though, I imagine asking someone to marry you is extremely nerve racking. Since, they either say yes or no. If they say no, it will hurt to be rejected like that. If they say yes, it would make the man happy to get to be with the girl loves forever. With that "yes", does come some expectation from the man in terms of hoping for or assuming he'll get an enthusiastic response with many I love you's thrown in there. So, if all she say is "Yeah okay, sure I'll marry you" in a very monotone way like she's being questioned by the cops. I can see why that might hurt a guy a bit. So, depending on your girls tone of response. I think you should just talk it out with her and tell her how you feel and work it out together. Consider it good practice for marriage.0