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To be honest, it depends in my eyes.
Depends on how long you've been together beforehand.
How important marriage is to you two.
How important it is to your parents.
I mean, some people they get engaged to take the next step and then they take no further action because they don't have the money.
Some people get engaged and get through the marriage within a year because if they don't do it now they never will.
Some people can afford to do it, some people do it on the cheap.
And some people just want to get married after they've been engaged. Some aren't so fussed.
It completely depends on you and what's important to you.
If you want to plan your wedding, go for it as long as your husband to be is happy. Go for your life!1