I'm engaged, and there's this 1 guy that won't leave me alone, His always messaging me on Facebook ami-ing me flirting with me etc ... And he knows am engaged and would never break up with my Fiance. so why does he always trying to talk to me? does he really think he would ever have a Chance? or is he just messing around with me? my sisters and my friends telling me am cheating on my Fiance, But I know am not because I don't even like this guy? is it messed up of me giving him the chance to talk to me and flirt with me? am I cheating on my fiance this way?
p.s My fiance doesn't know about this. (AND I WONT TELL HIM)
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If you can't tell your fiance, then you know deep down that you are leaning towards cheating.. cheating doesn't just mean having sex with another guy.. If you are really confident that you don't like this guy, then you won't hesitate telling your fiance about him.. your supposed to confide in your fiance for problems like this anyway.. And letting this guy flirt with you makes him think you like him.. your leading him on.. if you are already engaged and committed, then this other guy shouldn't even be a problem.. Ignore him.. delete him from your Facebook and your messenger.. there are many options here.. tell him you are engaged and tell him strongly that you are not interested and that you will never be.
Of course he thinks he has a chance with you.. especially with the break-up and divorce rate now a days... people think anything is possible and they have no respect for relationships or marriages anymore.. don't do the work for them.0