I keep looking for answers hidden on the internet about my husband. I know I sound crazy but hear me out. We've been going through some tough times. I'm not confident that I'm still what he wants. I'm not confident that I'm enough for him. I know he's here with me and I know as people have told me he comes home to me and sleeps with me, but, why when he's here do I feel like he's not really here? I feel like apart of him elsewhere and not with me fully. I feel like half of his heart is still mine but the other half is just, gone. I don't know if it's because of stress lately or if something deeper is going on. And lately when we fight he says things like "I'm not in love with you anymore" or " I don't love you anymore!!" than he'll apologize when the fight is over but I don't believe he loves me the way he did anymore.. Please help!! Am I crazy? Why do I feel this way?:,( I don't know how to talk to him about this and even if I did, what do I say?
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Talk to him, don't accuse don't get angry. If you do that he will immediatley get defensive and nothing will be resolved. Communication is the only way your going to fix this problem. It may require you go to a marriage counciler but both of you need to communicate. It could be work stress, it could be financial stress it could be something you do that he has just bottled up inside until it became a much bigger issue than it is. Their are many things that could be happening but you need to try to work through this and that means talking honestly and openly, not airing you greavences just show him you are concerned and you want to help.1