10 years married and I swear the last 2 have been ridiculously lonely. It's work and normal daily routines. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't even see me anymore. I aways heard jokes about marriage is the end to your sex life but I figured that depended on the couple. I've tried everything you could think of and he says everything is fine. If it does finally happen, it's just for his satisfaction. All this is leaving me confused and questioning everything :( Any advise from married guys or gals? Guys, After so many years did you ever lose interest in your wife?
Most Helpful Guy
Do you talk to him? Do you do things together? The problem maybe that your drifting apart because you are apart. If you don't spend time with eachother in intimate stress free settings then this will happen. Do you have kids this is usual reason for the drifting apart, you have to reconnect. That doesn't mean sexually but emotionaly/mentally. When you have sex you can try and make it about him, teasing and such. This may help and make him desire you more, but this really is a symptom of the problem not the problem itself. Get him to do a date night, set it up yourself if you have to. Show him he is desirable for more then fullfilling your needs, and he will start wanting to fullfill your needs. If that doesn't help then you should see a counciler.1
- Show AllShow Less