Well, I don't wanna get married until i make a good career and finanacial independence and sufficieny, I mean what is the rush? Marriage can wait and so can the guys. So, my exes were like very judgmental about how wrong i am about it and my choice. So, is it really wrong? Or am i just letting those jerks get on to my head like this?
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Not it's not wrong at all. You're doing great, ur exes are just bitter. Forget them. Even if you decide to never get married, there's nothing wrong about that. It's your life, you are the only one to decide how to be happy.
Want to know the truth? Many guys will make you feel bad about ti because they feel offended by your behavior. They feel like you refuse to make them the center of your life. And honetly, why would you?
People can say: "Oh but you'll regret it as you get old, not having met agreat guy and bla bla bla and being with your prince charming and bla bla bla". But let's think the other way. What if you get married without having a career and being independant and before doing all you want to do. More than 50% of marriages don't work out or, at least, are less than what people expected. Then you'll be stuck in a prision marriage, not being able to provide for yourself and frustrated for not doing what you wanted to.
I've met a lot of old women like this.0