Or instead he should take it positively?
Should a husband feel ashamed after discovering the fact his wife slept with many people of his town before marraige? Whereas he had kept hmslf clean?
What Girls Said 4
Well, since everyone knows about her past promiscuity it's not like he can put her past behind him.
This all sort of affects the way people treat and view him now.
That's a hard pill to swallow.
He needs to decide if he's capable of handling judgment from the people in his town.
If he's positive he can trust his wife and not be made a fool of, he should stand strong and continue to make things work with her.
Some people do change.2
Well of his town?
Well shesssh. I wouldn't feel gr8 about that.1
yeah, he'd be marrying a hoe1
Shortly after I got engaged I found out that my fiance had fingered and given/received oral from several girls who I knew. It came as a bit of a shock since he had told me that he was a virgin. Which I guess he was, but I was under the impression that he meant that he hadn't done anything sexual with another person before. Anyway, I was really hurt. I was hurt because I was a virgin and he had experiences with other people that I would never have, because he was my one and only. But after thinking about it for a while, I realized I was being stupid. These were things he did as a teenager, way before he met me. It's not like he could go back and change the past. What matters is that he's faithful to me now, and he treats me the way I deserve to be treated. People change. And being someone's future is a lot better than being someone's past.1
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What Guys Said 1
These are the things which need to be discussed openly prior to the relationship and marriage. If she had hid the fact from him, then he has every right to feel upset (but not ashamed).2
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