Like... se x is fine but i really am super scared of giving birth and I cry about it because I don't know if anyone will want me ever because of it. I will adopt kids and have a family but not give birth. Do you guys perfer kids that are YOURS or can they be adopted?
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I'm actually starting to consider adoption. All my life I've been dead set against having children. I absolutely despised children. They drove me insane. I couldn't handle them.
But lately... I've been starting to change my mind. Its as if some kind of fatherly instinct turned on inside of me, and all of the sudden i have this longing to have a child to take care of... but specifically a daughter. I know how ridiculous that sounds. How could a father only want a daughter? But I've grown up with 3 younger brothers all my life. I've always been surrounded by boys. My mom was the only female i had in my life (aside from other family members that i barely saw. This is the reason i always felt happier with female friends around, and the reason i long for a daughter-and not a son. Because i want a change.
Sure, it'd be nice to have a child of my own. A child from my own blood and DNA. But adoption is the only way i can guarentee that i get a daughter, and not a son...1