So I have a two roads I can take in my career either use the contacts from my former work and finish school and work abroad at least 6 months out of the year all over te world in remote drill sites and military contracts. Making very good money to were I could buy anything I've ever really wanted but be away from home for over half the year
or I can finish school not use my contacts and stay state side not working at lucrative jobs. Yes be stable but not "let's go on vacation to Italy" for no reason sort of money. I started thinking what if I ever married how would this choices effect it. Yes I'd be wry wealthy give her and my kids anything they'd ever want. But miss out in their life's and I'm sure she would be lonely which leads to other issues.
- Wealthy but away from home often.Vote A
- Stable (but not poor) but around more.Vote B
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The second one. The kids and I would want his time much more than his money.
My dad made a lot of money at his job while I was growing up but he wasn't very present at home.. Not to where he was gone half the year, but enough so that he pretty much always got home from work after I was already in bed. So yes, I was able to go to many places including Hawaii and Europe, and I had a pony, but I'm not sure the lack of a relationship with my dad was worth it. (To be fair though, the lack of a relationship with him was probably more because of severe emotional abuse on his part.)0