I was invited out last weekend to have dinner with 2 really close friends of mine who are a couple. They announced that they are engaged. I congratulated them and then the ultimate question happened. They invited me to the wedding.
Now I have made my position very clear in the past that I'm very much apposed to weddings and marriages and they know that. I have dodged 3 previous weddings because of this. I'm astounded that they asked me and I have a gut feeling their going to ask me to play a role in this wedding.
Has anyone had this situation happen to them? Is their anyway to let the know I don't want to be apart of this?
They know my stance on marrage.
I will be more than happy to meet up with them soon.
But to step foot into a church no way.
I am asking is their away of letting them know I care but no thank you?
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You can show your support for something you disagree with.
I think you should go !
However , if you feel that strongly you should tell them the truth.
Don't lie though !
If they are smart enough they will see past the bullshit especially since they know where you stand on the topic of marriage.1