Bit of a unique situation here, I am an international graduate student, my boyfriend is a professional in my field. As a result of visa issues, and wanting to stay with him, basically I need to know with in a few months if we are on the track to marriage. If we aren't, I need to look for any job (likely in a small town (because they often will sponsor visa's) as opposed to the city we will move too), but if we are even if it takes a while for him to propose I can ride out a temporary visa after graduation. My boyfriend and I have lived together for a few months, and its easy. I love his friends, have meet his family more than once, and earlier this week he took a day off work to drive me to a job interview in this new city (where we want to live). He comes to doctors appointments with me, offers to help me with money since I am still in school, and will always help me in anyway he can. He's overthinking, when he tells me he isn't sure he wants to marry me. My graduate program is small, and its hard because I want to tell him to take all the time he needs (within the visa limit) but we'll he's doing that, he can't have me all to himself. I don't intend to date anyone else... I just want to remind him of the girl he feel in love with. Any idea how to do that when I don't have a ton of friends around?
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Well, pushing him away isn't going to help. The text seems like a good idea. Its a lot to go through though, you are pushing for a life long commitment and that will take time. Plan on it not going that way and hope that it does is the only advice I'd give, that and don't take a break from each other that will just drive a wedge between you two.0