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I had this Same feeling Right before Marrying a husband out in Egypt and with God, I allowed Him to guide the way on My... Wedding day, which did take place at the Ministry of Justice.
We have had many ups and downs, Breakups and Makeups, and with me Not having returned in a very long time now that I am back in the states, I often wonder Why God allowed me to go through with it when it doesn't seem to be benefiting either one of us at the moment.
If you have already gone ahead and made these Huge plans, spent a fortune, then you need to take some space Alone with yourself and decide it it going to 'Benefit' you in the end. Going through with it because of All that has been Invested, if you end up in a messy divorce and kids, How much More are you losing then?
You could be having cold duck feet, much like a nervous Nellie of a bride groom often does. However, Let God Guide you and with This, He will be your Decision maker if you decide to just 'Back out' and work from There... Focusing on You Only and no one else so that it won't matter because you will Not... Care.
Good luck and seriously, "I Do" some soul searching, you still have time. xx0
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