i used to have very specific idea of what i wanted
but now it's like i have lost sight because im kinda giving up...
married people , tell me your love stories, give me hope lol (and how old were you)
who ever said anything about realistic expectations?
i shoulda made this girls only
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You cannot find the man you want for a few reasonss.
1) perhaps the man you picture doesn't exist. We have no specifics.
2) you are dealing with men who simply don't want relationships due to the long term potential they have for wreaking havoc on men's lives... so they avoid the longterm.
3) you do not have the assets needed to attract the man you want (men are more in tune with this due to the social requirement of men to be the asker rather than the askee... rejection and success give you a clearer picture of what others see in you).
Perhaps you should find the type of man you want and ask him directly.0