I met this good guy on a public event, and he had a crush on another girl in the same event, the girl is beyond gorgeous and is a good person (from what I know about her) we started talking later after the event and we became friends (me and the guy), and I tried to help him get the girl, needless to say, we fell in love shortly and became an item. 2 months later, we had a fight and he said he doesn't know if he loved me or her. That fight has passed, we broke up, then we got back together. 2 years later we got married. I found out that he still stalks her a lot on social media. I can not let this go. Does he still love her? Why is he doing this? And how can I make him quit? He told me he doesn't love her anymore but I have a feel he does. Please help.
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I feel your pain. My fiance's ex tried to contact him when she found out we were first dating. I was so pissed, and paranoid and jealous. It took me months to get rid of my insecurities about her. But he did choose you, he's married to you. And if you start noticing weird behavior like him talking to her, or sneaking out and coming home late or just shady stuff in general, then I'd be really concerned. I think he's just curious about her but it's nothing to worry about. If he was doing it every day or a few times a week, then maybe that would be concerning too and you can just tell him and you'd have to be really honest with him. He might get mad that you noticed but it's for your benefit, and you have a right to know if he's being shady like that.1