We have been together for six years and I love him but I don't feel sexually attracted to him anymore. He's gained quite a bit of weight, so have I since I recently had a baby, but his weight has made his face look much different. He is also balding (I hate bald heads) and he's only 24. His beard is huge and getting bushier, he just doesn't keep it up and doesn't cut it the way that I like. I know I sound silly but how do I get over this. I'm not going to break up our family or anything but I think it's playing a part in me not wanting to have sex anymore. I don't want to hurt his feelings by bringing it up.
Most Helpful Guy
You don't want to hurt his feelings by bringing it up, but you will let it destroy your relationship and your family by keeping quiet. Do you not see how stupid that is? Either the two of you get things back on track, and that includes his weight and your weight, his beard and whatever of yours bothers him. And get over the bald head problem you have! Lots of guys lose their hair. Even if you moved on from this guy and found another, his hair could fall out. And that is not a fault of the guy, that is just the way things are. Get over the stupid little shit!!!5
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Most Helpful Girl
You're dating a guy younger than you but he seems to be aging face through lack of care and genetics
If you want to spend the rest of your life with this man, it's only inevitable that at some point you will both age (taking on a different appearance ---gradually but most certainly). You have to accept that.
How would you feel if he were no lo her attracted to you because you are heavier? My advice is, hit the gym together. You both can benefit from exercise. You won't just look great , you'll feel great.
Don't stress the issue too much though.
He has to genuinely want to exercise for his own health.
If he doesn't don't keep mentioning it.
This will cause him to feel insecure and unattractive.1