I think making child does not put two people closer. When you are mother you are only with child and you care only for him/her. You barely have sex because you are always tired and romance between people is mostly gone. Thing that people are together is mostly because of child (paying for child and living, growing up in complete family is for child most important). I think most of men see their wife as mother of thei rchild and not as their atractive wife anymore. So why do you think that it takes you more close and it's post beautiful think if it is most challanging decision in life?
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I think it really depends on the situation. If the guy loves his wife or girlfriend and she becomes pregnant, then yes I think it can bring them both together. But that would be because they already love each other.
However, if a woman decides she must get pregnant with her husband or bf's child to keep the relationship, then I think it's only going to draw the guy away from the relationship/
Sure, some guys may stay to try and be there for their child. However, if the relationship is truly doomed, then there is no way a child is going to help fix the relationship.
My roommate actually went through this. He was with this girl and she is crazy They were dating on and off for a few months, and he decided he no longer wanted to be with her. Well, surprise, surprise she fell pregnant shortly after he told her that, even though she was apparently on birth control AND did Plan B.
He stayed with her for his child's sake but it never worked out. Now he is not with her, but she still uses their child as a pawn. It's really a sad situation for the child. She thought that having this child would make him stay, but it didn't.
Sure he's there for his kid, but not for her. He's got a new girlfriend and sees his child as much as possible.0