they have sex
they live together with someone
they share things
they spend money
they have babies
they hang out
they go on dates
they sleep together
they get to know eachother's friends
they get to know eachother's families
but ooohhhh noooo they hate marriage soooo much they never wanna do it and dont even wanna hear about it !
are you kidding me?@
even if those things are not with the same person, you are still doing marriage stuff and then you babble about how much you just loath marriage and will never do it... really?
and girls who cry day and night because a guy won't marry them or they can't find someone to marry or most guys are not husband material... maybe if you stop giving him EVERYTHING 100% free outside of marriage without any real commitment at all !
maybe im missing something... help me solve this riddle?
im talking about people who are sooooo against marriage and say they want nothing to do with it and they dont need it
yet they do EVERYTHING related to it and they say they need thoe things and can't live without them
i feel like a lot of people are just plain afraid of commitment and want to feel like there is a way out... real love and real commitment are almost gone
Most Helpful Guy
They genuinely do not want to commit to be there for better or worse. Some are reserving the right to change their minds. Others are basically saying they will be there as long as the other person is actively being a good partner, but if the other person stopped treating them well, they'd be gone.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well the problem is, we live in a society where people dont give a shit about anything, and they like to sleep around no strings attached. Its really messed up I know. I currently have a boyfriend (my first and last) and we're going to get married after we finish our studies. I still believe in marriage. The problem with girls now is that they sleep around and live with their boyfriends without getting married thats why the guy doesn't want to marry her cause he thinks she's too damn easy! I get you man...1
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