My family belongs to the indian community n i am dating this guy that i see potential in... he is 5 years older than me... the way we r heading with our ups n downs n everything coming in the way but we r crossing the path smoothly i feel like this is the one.. he has a repo of being a flirt (but which guy isnt) (tbh I don't know of any lol) so basically my dad based on what comments he gives on my guy (he doesn't know that we r dating) is that he is party freak n is always with girls n is a drunkard n all (basically all this is bad for my dad... even partying -_-) so I don't know if my dad will say yes if i ever ve to marry him so I don't know how to convince him n all... any ideas would help.
Thanks a lot
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The rate of love marriages is only 10% in India so, you can imagine how difficult it is.
You're still under 18 so, why you're so worried about marriage so early?
If that guy flirts with other girls, it certainly means that he's a player. Don't fall in trap. There are sooo many guys who don't deliberately flirt with girls while being in a relationship. 'Friendly flirting' is different thing. Pretence is very easy for guys in case of younger girls.
It is extremely hard that your dad is going to agree. Some people just don't like party animals because they're afraid that their daughter will possibly become victim of domestic violence, cheating, disinterested and aloof behaviour. Such people tend to waste their money. You can ask your boyfriend if his family is liberal or not so that his parents will ask your parents for marriage. Family meeting could ameliorate the understanding. That way you can make it a love-arranged marriage.
Good luck :)0
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