I personally think this would be the best of both worlds. Marriages are just a waste of money and an unnecessary social contract, but wedding as a celebration is great!
So I think the ideal is to have a wedding to celebrate your relationship, but without the "actually legally getting married" part.
Yay or nay?
- YES, having a wedding with no marriage is a pretty good idea! :D12% (2)40% (4)23% (6)Vote
- NO, a wedding is incomplete without a marriage and so it's bad -_-62% (10)20% (2)46% (12)Vote
- ACTUALLY, I hate both weddings and marriages because they are both extremely expensive, I'd prefer netiher.26% (4)40% (4)31% (8)Vote
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This is a horrible idea to me. The worst part about marriage to me is the wedding. You want me to throw away butt loads of cash for one day to celebrate something I celebrate everyday? The only reason I've ever considered having a wedding is to create some sort of framework for entering into a new chapter of life. Like graduation. But if there is no actual marriage then it's just some random ass day where we go and spend a bunch of cash to make our friends and family stare at us for a while. Personally marriage is kinda pointless to me too but because of how our government treats them and because of the feeling of security and purpose it gives to some relationships/people I'm open to getting married. But never would I have a wedding without a marriage unless I'm marrying myself.3