Think about it... what are the points?
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Totally with authentic here. Apart from legalities and formalities like getting to wear a pretty dress and have a honeymoon and getting discounts on insurance and stuff, it's really just to cement your commitment to eachother. If you don't think there's a point to being married, then why should you? Do what you want. If you feel you don't want that commitment, or that you can have it without the legal statement, then that's fine. It's about what works for the individual. Personally I think that if you're going to get married, it should be a final conformation that you want to be together because you're attracted to eachother, you get along, you care about each other and you want to build your lives together. A lot of people see marriage as the actual commitment, that if you get married you're going to stay together forever... I don't. I see marriage as the confirmation. If you're going to stay together, you might want to get married. Just to celebrate it and shout it out to the world.0