Lets say you're simply unhappy (not in an abusive marriage) & getting ready to leave. Why should you make yourself single before finding someone else? Whats wrong with lining up a replacement?
Take getting a new car for example in an ideal world you wouldn't sell your car if you didn't have another one to replace it with (unless you can't afford it but you know what I mean).
So why do soooo many people call these people cheaters, or not worthy gf/bf/wife/husband material?
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I don't cheat and I expect the same in return. If you are having problems, you dont cheat, you work them out. If you can't work them out then you get help and you don't cheat. If you can't work them out, you separate and you don't cheat. Only after you have told the other person that you are through, should you find someone else. Period.
Just my opinion.0