- Fair. As a sign of her commitmentVote A
- UnfairVote B
- Let her buy her own ringVote C
TBH, she shouldn't be expecting anything from you. If she really loves you than the ring is an afterthought. I would be thrilled if my boyfriend wanted to marry me (if I even had a boyfriend I would be thrilled). There's nothing wrong with hoping for a nice ring. But demanding a really expensive ring, well good luck with her!
I hate when girls pick out engagement rings. They're always huge and obnoxious. The man should choose the engagement ring and size, the wife should buy the wedding band for the husband and any other engagement gift.
Simply put, don't marry a cheap greedy woman. Sounds like this potential marriage is already doomed before you're even engaged. Have a serious talk with her about it.
What is "ridiculously expensive"?
Fair, perhaps, not not a great start to a lifetime together.
If I really loved someone they could hand me a plastic ring from a vending machine and I'd still say yes.
Forget the ring and the car and just get some pizza.
How the hell can a ring cost that much? Can you two compromise and get a pool and patio for your house or go on a vacation of your lifetime or something you'd both enjoy?
Let her buy her own ring.
Especially if she is going unrealistic with it. But if she has the proper income, she could buy you a car. Either the ring or the car.
sounds like a marriage made in hell. have fun with that.
Engagement gives you a preview of what it will be like to work together as a husband and wife. You have been warned.
id dump her.
It's time to dump her
It's a trap, that Death Star-Ring is still operational.
I don't know... A Dodge Charger is a Piece of Shit... So an equivalent ring is probably a piece of shit as well...
She's obviously a materialistic bitch, break up with her immediately
So she's never had to work and she's already pouting if you don't drop that much on her.
And this is the honeymoon stage. If she's like this now, imagine in a few years if you have kids, her life is actually stressful and she's less head over heels for you.
Run like your ass is on fire.