Me and my husband have been married for 3 years. We're having our first child in February. This is the first time we had sex since we been married. My aunt and uncle have been married a long time they have 2 kids they still do it every night. My husband works for them which is why we love with them he has a very busy job I hardly ever see him except at night or in the morning. Sometimes in the afternoon. Its also why we haven't done it for 3 years. How often should we do it?
Most Helpful Girl
I am not married, but have a child of three and have been liveing togeather for four years. We have sex once or twice a month. I blame this mainly on my lack of sex drive after haveing a child. I think a healthy relationship requiers at least once a month and anything above that is personaly prefrence. The woman is natraly on heat once a month, normaly one week after her period. So this is the reason for me answer. But answering honestly, once a month is not enough really, I still feel like I want more just dont have the time or energy for it after the baby.
Good luck and congrats on the pregnancy! x0
Most Helpful Guy
I'm an Arab guy, have 3 wives, own a hardware shop, a car parts shop and a gas station. If busy then I'm also a busy person as I am at all my shops every day.
Sex, once or twice per week with each is what I aim for as I have to be fair and treat all 3 of them equally.
It could not be possible if work is the only reason you are not having sex more often. Perhaps you might want to communicate with your husband more about this matter.0