Married 4mos feel like i do everything i should i am great in bed he tells me he loves me he is my everything. I found out he is cheating and has been since our engagement. I surprised him a yr ago and propsed to him on his birthday and gave him a ring i really love him. I was wondering is it possible for another woman to take him from me even though i do everything for him and we have a great sex life. What does she have to do to take him that im not doing?
Most Helpful Guy
She won't have to do anything, because your doing it all. If you stopped doing it all for him, this will mean she will have to, and she probably don't want that, so as your husband takes you and uses you, she is free to just enjoy him because he has no needs just time on his hands to please her, so really, you need to leave him for her to leave him, because when he wants a little more of what you done for him from her, she won't be interested, this is how affairs get started. One commits where the other has time to flaunt around attracting types who just want a fling, x2
Most Helpful Girl
He doesn't love you. That's all there is to it. If a man loves you no one can take him, if he doesn't, nothing you do is enough to keep him with you.
And men can't be forced to love, they can't be brought to it. He has to pick you. If he doesn't, you need to move on. That's why they pursue, that's why they propose, they move the relationship further.
As soon as you got to a point where you had to propose something was wrong. If he cheated on you for so long, he married you out of habit. It's so simple, it can't be simpler: He. Doesn't. Love. You.0