Just curious of people opinion on the topic.
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I will make every effort, on my part, to figure out the reason why they wouldn't want us to marry. If the family is not irrational, and if they're all civil about it and are open to honest discussion, then I might have to back off and not marry him (again, that's IF they have a seriously valid reason).
If the family is irrational, not willing to discuss anything, and are not making valid points or presenting valid reasons to why they don't want us to marry, then I'd go on to have some very serious conversations with my significant other regarding where we go from that point. In this situation, I'd marry him against his family's wishes ONLY if he is also willing to take the heat from his family for it and/or possibly cut ties with them.1