Do you have any advice for a couple getting married soon?

I'm getting married very soon. In a little less than 8 days. Are there any tips or advice that you can offer for the new transition of our lives together.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • -- Don't lose your sense of individuality. Couples don't have to do absolutely everything together; give each other a little space.

    -- Nagging is not loving.

    -- Don't try to change each other. It won't work. Accept each other for who you are.

    -- Money isn't the number one killer of relationships. Resentment is.

    -- The opposite of love isn't hatred. It's indifference.

    -- Even the best relationships have their occasional tough times; there's no such thing as a perfect relationship.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Never lose yourself in an effort to please the relationship
    Love is about emotional bonds, honesty. Monagamy is a myth
    Babies don't fix problems
    Find the root of your anger, discover the real problems, they are not money.
    Direct your emotions to PURE logic.
    GO TO COUPLES THERAPY WEEKLY. Whether, or not you are having problems is irrelevant
    Tell him what you expect in plain English. Never assume he should know
    Communicate needs, wants in plain English. Never assume he knows.
    Matter of fact NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING. Tell him in PLAIN English, so he knows.
    Be direct
    Listen to UNDERSTAND, not to respond.
    Active listening looks for connection, not error
    Never read his mind. Ask a question. Accept the response (use common sense)

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What Guys Said 7

  • Communication is key. As soon as that breaks down the relationship suffers. That doesn't mean you need to talk each others ear off non stop, just be sure to tell each other your dreams, and thoughts, respectfully, you are sharing a life together.

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  • Keep the bathroom door closed.
    Lie about nothing.
    Only say good things about your spouse, especially in front of others.
    Always eat dinner together.
    Have sex.

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    • "Keep the bathroom door closed." I'm interested in why you say this. Bad personal experience?

  • Love each other always

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  • Have sex like porn stars every day and the marriage will b great.

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  • dont betray him ever you will execcution him mentally for all his life... self storie its the bad thing you can do to a male reember this... hope you have a good life tg :D

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  • Obey and serve your lord well... Don't talk back and make as many babies as you can

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  • Don't hold back on the sex and cook him all three meals you will have a jolly married life

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What Girls Said 5

  • Love endlessly, live happily, and always be honest and open with one another. My sincerest congratulations on your marriage! :)

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  • Don't talk bad about your spouse to other people. Even to your bestbfriend.

    When you get into arguments , don't call others to let them know about it.

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  • awww congrats man!!! i wish you all the best to you and your future husband... my advice to you will be to always listen to each other and always communicate and be happy together

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  • congrats!!!
    be happy & don't forget to have fun

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  • Congrats !!

    Just accept him as he is, try to obey him and always be positive and dont let anyone come between you guys

    And remember HAPPY WIFE HAPPY LIFE

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