I had an affair with my girlfriend (a single girl) for a month. I told my wife and thought she would divorce me or slap me. Instead, my wife revealed that she has been cheating on me with a single man that she calls her boyfriend. She showed me photos of them together. She likes how we both earn the same amount of money, while he is 2 years older. I am same age as my wife. She admires his muscles and how "good" he is in bed. While I admire my girlfriend's kinder personality, better looks, and admit that she is prettier and better in bed.
None of us have kids, and my wife occasionally spends the night with her boyfriend, while I spend the night with my girlfriend.
WTF do I do?
Most Helpful Girl
Well you made your bed, lay in it. However if you both of you aren't even sexually attracted to each other then what's the point? Don;t be ashamed of getting separated and further divorced... you both aren't happy and it's clear you guys can't just have each other for convenience.2
Most Helpful Guy
Get in shape,
Court your wife
Have better sex
Ask her to be exclusive again.
Or stay In an open relationship and hope she doesn't leave you1