My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 4 years--he is 23 I am 25. I am still in school to be a nurse, he is selling cars and just feel like "sh*t or get off the pot" If he doesn't know by now that he wants me as his wife will he ever? Is it his age, insecurities, both--I'm not the perfect girlfriend but I'm not that bad either. Help!
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My brother was with his current wife since high school. They didn't get married till he was 26 or so. So it doesn't necessarily mean he isn't considering marrying you, or doesn't 'want' to. Many men just get freaked out by the prospect of 'till death do us part' My brother was going completely insane, pacing back and forth in the back of the church before the wedding, but got over his fears rather quickly after tying the knot. It's just a big step for some until they take it and see it's not so bad. Each guy is different though, he may very well not be looking for that sort of relationship, or he may not realize that is what YOU want from HIM. I think you'd do well to carry on a serious conversation with him about this sweetheart.0