I met her at a bar, and we spent the night at my house. She told me she was married with no kids, but her husband cheated on her. She prefers to be with me, but is confused on what to do. She enjoys sex with me and kissing me on the lips. Our dinner dates on conversations are also amazing. she also hits the gym and plays video games online with me. neither of us have kids, and I am single, while she is married.
What do I do with her?
Most Helpful Girl
Just because her husband cheated on her doesn't excuse her behaviour. If she wants to be doing this she should be asking for a divorce first, not bringing other people into the mess. If they haven't divorced as a result of his cheating then that means she's agreed for whatever reason to give him another chance, but she isn't doing that and she's using you as an escape from her problems. Or it means she is only staying with him for revenge, which is spiteful. Either way, if this is to become more than just a fling it sounds like she needs to get her head straight first.0
Most Helpful Guy
You leave her alone and stop doing what you're doing. Do you really want to be responsible for having a hand in breaking up a family? There's obviously problems in their marriage that they need to work on. What you're doing isn't helping.
What are your intentions? How long do you think it will last? It can't go on forever. Do you want to be in a relationship with her? If so why? How could you ever trust her? She's cheating on her husband with you.
Moreover what if the husband finds out? Do you know what he's capable of? I'm pretty sure he'd be warpath pissed. Can you be certain you won't catch his wrath? What if you knock her up?
Cut things off, find a girl who isn't married or isn't in a relationship. It's the stand up thing to do. This has trouble written all over it. I suppose if they were totally estranged or in the process of a divorce things might be different, but that doesn't seem to be the case. Time to shut it down and move along.0