I am 21 years old. is it too early to get married? I love my boyfriend very much and we want a baby.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, lets say that 15 y. o. kids have baby. I think that you should sit down with your partner and for a moment be in real world. Do you really want to get up every hour and feed baby? Do you really want to give up all social life and your career? And many similar questions. ( with your partner of course). If you will answer yes, just do it because nobody and nothing can stop you. If no, think about your own life. 21 is beautiful age and you can do lot of things in your live which will be even good for your baby ( experience.. etc). Try to think about it, but its needed to say that this question is individual. In Europe is different level, in Asia or Africa different as well. Without knowing it, all is only general talking.2
Most Helpful Girl
Well, this I coming from a 20 year old but I would say I am pretty experienced by watching other relationships. It all depends on your place in life. First of all, are you compatible? Second of all, do you have good jobs and a stable life style? Not that that is necessarily crucial to marriage (it's much better tho) but I know from family experience, it's much better to have stable careers when children are brought into the world. It's better for the kids, believe me. O about marriage, that is really something only you and those who know you can give advise on, when it comes to kids, I would say, think of the kids.0