Me and my boyfriend have been discussing about marriage and kids but don't when's the right time to start.(Been together for 3 years. He's 30 finna turn 31 next month and I'm 21 finna be 22 in 5 months) Any advice?
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Sadly, you need to think about money first, why? Because love doesn't pay the bills. Kids are not cheap. You need a house to live in, not a crummy apartment. You will need to feed and clothe your kids and save for their education. You both need decent paying jobs for that. Make sure you are both done school and have careers going. Then make sure you have some financial stability. Before you get married, I recommend you live together for at least 2 years to fully make sure you know each other first. Once you have all this, then you can get married. I would recommend to be married for at least a year before kids just so you two can enjoy each other as a married couple without having to worry about the kids.2