I'm in a situation with a guy where everything is leading to a future and being married. But the age thing is in the way right now. We don't necessarily date but he's more like a boyfriend than ever. He's hinted at marriage and stuff in the future, his mom has said stuff to me about stuff too, and so I have willingly committed myself fully to him and him only, while he's at college studying, cause that's what his mom wants him to do before we go into a relationship and she also wants me to be out of HS too. So since I have committed already, would it be okay to wear a ring on my left ring finger while he's at college so other guys know I'm "taken"?
my mom is okay with it. And my friends most of them has said I should go for it? Just looking for outside opinions
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I don't think guys will check your finger when they like how you look.
It's a nice idea and go for it but don't bet that you will not attract other guys. Maybe if you were in your 20s and guys were a little more sophisticated...
Okay, young love is nice but I view that when two people plan the rest of their lives together is really committed. If both of you have talked about what you would be doing in the next 5-10-20 years. How much to save. What job to take. How much you will be making. Can you afford a home/car/rent together. Will you have those join accounts and budgets together. Will you have kids? When will you have them? Do you stay home to raise the kids or have your family chip in a help. It's the little things that people who spend their lives together that will really matter.1