If based in relationship the groom family visit the bride family (act they don't know each other) and he most give her any gold to prove he is serious
if based in traditional. as example "my sister's friend proposed to me for her brother in law" then she let them call my mom and decide the date for the first met for me & the groom. If he like me he will give me the gold if I don't like him I'll leave the room (so sensitive lol)
they decide for a males dinner date to read First page of Quran (only males) to make this marriage blessed. In that day they decide when to say "I do" then the groom & bride start talking as engaged
They get married the groom give bride 10000$ if she divorced him she will return his 10000$ if he divorce her she will keep the mahr & without wearing white dress or moving toghether... They Just make sure if they like each other sexually & emotionally without the fancy things THEN...
finally the wedding night+the pop up cherry night+ The honeymoon night
This is how we get married in Saudi Arabia, Any opinions?
What Guys Said 3
Dumb, and illogical.0
What Girls Said 1
If it works for you, do it. If not, do something else. The point of marriage is to be happy!1