Most Helpful Guy
You're married to a control freak. You'll probably have to get away from him, assuming the abuse escalates.1
Most Helpful Girl
Life would really not be much fun that way.
The foundation for a good life together, is already having good lives separately. End of story.
When you have small children, things are a little different. In that case, yr probably gna have to spend most of yr time together, for logistical reasons if nothing else. But, that doesn't seem to be the situation here, from what I can tell anyway (you would've mentioned small kids if they were in the picture).0