What do you do when your girl she won't marry ya cause she feels like it already?

after years of being engaged we still have not said I DO , because she says why its only a piece of paper and in her mind we are allready married. WTF is that supose to mean.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Either:

    She doesn't want to get married because she doesn't believe in marriage and honestly doesn't believe the piece of paper matters,

    She doesn't want to marry you but feels stuck in the relationship somehow (your lives are too intertwined, for example, or her family really likes you, or she is financially dependent on you or you have a kid together...),

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    She doesn't know what she wants for the wedding and is worried about screwing up the planning or changing her mind about details or guest list etc. Or she is just plain nervous about having an entire day of being the centre of attention.

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What Guys Said 3

  • From your perspective, what is the marriage going to bring to the relationship that you don't already have now? Kids? Financial Security? Commitment? If commitment, do you really think if she stays with you for twenty years, she won't want to stay for twenty more? And if she decides she wants to leave while you are not married, would you really want to stop her, knowing that she has made up her mind?

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  • It means that she's not very smart, or is afraid of commitment.

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  • Sounds like my kind of girl... One who doesn't need a piece of paper to define our relationship

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