Am married for 2 years but inlove with someone else, what should I do?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • What? you are in love with someone else? that means it's clear that you don't love your husband and you are not happy with him, then you should immediately seek divorce and come out of this unhappy marriage.

    However before you do that, you need to ask yourself these questions:

    1. You said you are in love with some other guy, ok but does he know that you love him and is he also in love with you the same way you are in love with him?

    2. Well, first you must confirm on this, who knows may be your feelings are one sided for that guy but he doesn't look at you that way? possible right?

    3. If the other guy doesn't love you while you love him, and without knowing this you go for divorce then what are you going to do?

    Hence before you consider divorce be 1000% sure that the other guy also loves you the same way and is willing to be with you when you get divorced ( in future).

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Think realistically, love is different than infatuation. You married this guy so you clearly must have loved him initially. The one you are considering, can you imagine a future with him? Could you imagine being married to him? Do you love the one you are currently still married to? How long have you known the person you are in love with? How long have you known the person you are married to? (not including the years of marriage.. but the entire time of knowing them.)
    ...
    We need more details than what you have given.

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What Guys Said 11

  • Depends on who u love, if that person loves u back then u should file for a divorce and get married
    If he doesn't loves u then try and flush him out of yr system

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  • Hmmm... in love or lust, the grass is not always greener on the other side. Quite often people just don't make an effort and they think it would be totally better with someone else. Unless you have made a real effort then you will just keep doing the same thing with the next guy.

    If you have made an effort and your hubby is lacking then maybe it is time to call it! Do that though before you decide to start seeing the other guy.

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  • Get a divorce, and next time, marry the guy you're actually in love with.

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  • Cut the affair off, you are married now. You agreed to be with your husband till the end of your life or till the end of his, that is what a marriage is.

    Chances are this affair will not turn into anything and if you try to divorce your husband, he can prove your infidelity in court which means you could lose many things, including custody of any children you have.

    Just let it go.

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  • you obviously dont love the first. save yourselves both the trouble.

    marriage is suppose to be forced. thats why you have vows. so no matter what you stick by each other.

    please dont remarry.

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  • www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1878170-so-if-u-marry-someone-then-u-loose-feeling-for-him-or-her-what-would So this was ma question before days gone I don't know what your looking for w. Why did you marriage him in the first place. Do what ever u want. I don't care about u

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  • Don't make the wrong choice

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  • If you really loved your husband you wouldn't have fallen for the other guy, so divorce your husband

    Since you'll take all his shit when you do, you'll have no problems getting back on your feet after

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  • Omg you know there is consequences. Do what you must to be happy. peace

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  • Well you either grow the duck up, or get a divorce.

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  • Soo many fuck ups today on GAG, WTF do you peeps do it? O_o

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What Girls Said 2

  • Well what do YOU think you should do?

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  • Be honest with your husband, and don't go behind his back

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