We've been married for a coupleof months now, and we are in a long distance rel. The 1 month was great. we have plans and stuff. but as time goes by hestarted to be irresponsibble, he's always on his friend's house. untill dawn, He go straight there every after his work. everytime we talk his always mad at me and he always say foul or hurtful things. We no longer have proper convo. he always choose his frineds ver. I always asked for his time. I also find out that he's flirting withsome other girls. it seems that all the plans that we have is nothing to him. he's starting to be irresponsible and focused to something else. I can longer feel I have a husband.
How can Ilet my husband know that he is hurting me?
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Are you always right there, waiting, when he finally DOES come around and call?
Try making yourself... a little less "available". Like, just don't answer the phone, or texts, for a few hours. Maybe a whole day, or two. Then see what happens.
Clearly he is taking yr attention and presence for granted at the moment. Sometimes all you have to do is start withdrawing that attention.1
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