My wedding day is in 3 weeks, and I have never broken a bone or hurt myself playing basketball. But of course a week ago, I landed awkwardly and suffered a fracture of both bones in my lower left leg. After surgery, I was told that it would take 6 months to fully heal. My fiancée ( her parents invested a lot of money in this wedding) is furious. She yelled at me for hours, and told me that even though she still loves me and plans on marrying me, she was going to give me the silent treatment until our wedding day. And so far it has been killing me, she still helps me with anything I need, and sometimes I will get a smile out of her but no words unless it's urgent. I'm not apologizing because I'm the victim here, but I need advice on how to get her un-mad at me or at least back talking to me
Most Helpful Girl
Give her a dozen bouquet of roses, make her favorite meal, give her a gift card to a spa. I know marriage isn't about material things but you can also just sit down and talk to her and tell her you feel horrible but you don't want to receive the silent treatment and that it's not making you feel good. Part of being in a marriage is communication and the ability to let bygones be bygones. If she is not willing to look past this situation that wasn't your fault to begin with, you're going to look forward to her giving you the silent treatment every time she's mad and that's very childish.0
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, seriously? LOL
Like, I can understand mild disappointment, but holy hell. Is she worried that the FB photos aren't gonna come out perfect or something? Haha.
I don't know; I wouldn't stand for that kind of treatment. And similarly, I would never in a million years treat my lady like that. That's ridiculous.
How do you get her unmad at you? My question to you is: why should you be trying.
I'm not a hard-ass at all, but in this situation I'd just tell her she can play the silent treatment for years to come, because unless she gets over herslef, ain't gonna be a wedding.0