I am getting married soon and I love my fiance. He's my very first boyfriend and we haven't had sex yet. My sister encourage me to talk to him about my past of being sexually abused my my uncles. However I'm afraid he will hold back in our future sex life. Should I?
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You should. My girlfriend told me something similar. I'm the only person she's ever told. I'm glad she did.
Be prepared for him to want to harm the person/people who abused you. Make sure he doesn't take the law in his own hands. It's important for him to understand that you as the abused person must be in control of any response to the abuse. No one should take that control from you.
I wish you a life of happiness and peace.0