I was wondering since I was told in another question that I am unloving and only interested in sex, since I said I would need to sleep with someone before I married them, you could comment on that too!
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That absolutely does not make you just interested in sex. Most people now a days will sleep with somebody before getting married. Men call it, "taking the car for a drive before you purchase it." I don't necessarily like that saying, but a lot of marriages I researched back in the days before this was used, failed because the sex life wasn't going anywhere. Either the guy couldn't get it up, or etc.
Some people may feel the need to get married for social pressure, but I think it's just something most people want so they can have somebody through life to be there for them. It's a way of pronouncing your love for one another, and knowing that you will never feel that way about anybody else. Sure, there is cheating and all of that drama sometimes in a marriage, but I think most people shun marriage because of what they see with celebrities on television, which is definitely not what a marriage is. There should be a new definition for celebrity marriages.
If you don't want to ever get married, don't feel pressured too. But don't think that you never will want to because you might meet that special somebody. There are some that just get married for relgious purposes or legal benefits, but to me that's not what a marriage should be about.1