I've heard this a lot, people whove been married say they won't get married again.
Why could this be?
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I think it's just like any failed relationship, really.
-Feeling like you wasted time, effort and money on someone
- It's a way to prevent yourself from getting hurt again; a coping mechanism.
For example, let's say that someone decided to take a large step with someone because they loved them. In my case, it was having sex with them.
I thought that we were going to live happily ever after, right? Well, I thought so, until I got pregnant.
And then everything fell apart.
Now I don't really want to go that far with someone. Maybe my feelings will change.
But it's cause of those feelings listing above, along with the overall fear of it happening all over again- a constant dedicating to someone, only to have it fall to shit.