Most Helpful Girl
Marriage isn't supposed to be easy and it requires work from both parts, but even if things seem hard you have to remember why you got married in the first place. People tend to think that marriage always has to be happy, always understanding and honeymoon-like. It's not. You are not the same person now that you were 5 years ago, neither is your partner, but you have gone through things together. At some point, something happened that made you grow apart, and that's normal, that's to be expected. Change is scary but it does not necessarily mean something bad.
Is your partner worth the struggle of going through hardship for the sake of getting back that beautiful thing that got you to get married in the first place? If yes, then don't give up on it. Talk to her, seek counseling, ask her what's wrong, and figure it out together.1
Most Helpful Guy
You can try one last time but if it does not work then Its really over1