Should you get divorced if your marriage has been cold, lonely, for years?

  • Yes
    Vote A
  • No
    Vote B
And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy
It's like living with a roommate you just argue with usually for years and years


Most Helpful Girl

  • Marriage isn't supposed to be easy and it requires work from both parts, but even if things seem hard you have to remember why you got married in the first place. People tend to think that marriage always has to be happy, always understanding and honeymoon-like. It's not. You are not the same person now that you were 5 years ago, neither is your partner, but you have gone through things together. At some point, something happened that made you grow apart, and that's normal, that's to be expected. Change is scary but it does not necessarily mean something bad.
    Is your partner worth the struggle of going through hardship for the sake of getting back that beautiful thing that got you to get married in the first place? If yes, then don't give up on it. Talk to her, seek counseling, ask her what's wrong, and figure it out together.


Most Helpful Guy

  • You can try one last time but if it does not work then Its really over


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What Girls Said 1

  • look, if there's a problem, you need to try fix it before even thinking of divorce. u need to know what went wrong and why, and how can you return to what u had when u first got together.

    just because it's been cold for years, doesn't mean I'm gonna think you've been trying to fix it for years. get to the bottom of it, both of u, work ur asses off to get right like before, and put in some effort for your love, or it will die.


What Guys Said 2

  • Try and fix it first if that doesn't work then it's time for a separation.

  • Yeah why the fuck not?