All relationship success is based on the compatibility between the 2 people in that relationship.
Most Helpful Guy
I think it's about not letting how people WILL treat you on the outside get to you. In public you'll always be seen as an interracial couple and that's what your identity will be. But in private when it's just the two of you no B. S. judgement that means nothing from the outside world has any say. It's just you two. In private you're just a couple with no racial barriers. That's how I and my ex (we broke up for completely different reasons) chose to see it. I'm white and she was black and yeah in public just about everywhere someone always had something to say or give us a not so subtle look. But in private none of that mattered. We got to be ourselves.2
Most Helpful Girl
Talk about differences in culture and religion before you get married and how your future kids would come into it. Like what religious celebrations you want your kids to celebrate, what you want them to believe or do you want them to choose when they're old enough, etc..2